Stop losing yourself
in love.
Somatic Experiencing · Attachment · Conscious Relationship
in love.
For those who are ready to come home to the kind of love that actually lasts.
Most women who find me have already done years of work on themselves. They can trace the wound back to its origin. They’ve read the books, done the journaling, know their attachment style inside out.
And they still find themselves monitoring someone’s tone for signs of distance. Still apologising for things that aren’t their fault. Still losing ground in the same moments, every single time.
“You notice these really subtle changes in your everyday experience where you’re like, oh, normally this would have triggered me, or normally I would have been having this reaction. And I’m actually not. I actually feel really calm. I’ve seen so much change in the last year. This work has changed my life, and I’ve been telling everyone about it. All the things I’ve done, the ayahuasca, the talk therapy. I feel like this is really the thing. It’s all in the body, and the fact that humans just barely know that.”
— Angie, 1:1 clientIf you’ve been exhausted from monitoring, managing, shrinking, overgiving and spiralling in overthinking and anxiety, this work is for you. You’ll leave knowing what you need and being able to ask for it. Feeling safe in your body when they go quiet instead of flooding. Three months. Weekly sessions. The deepest work I do.
If you’ve been looping over the same conflict unable to find your way back to connection and intimacy, you’re not stuck. I’ll help you understand your dynamic and develop the skills to stop running into the same wall. Depth returns. Passion is reignited. Peace is found.
A 10-week bootcamp for your love life. You’ll walk away more grounded, more in control of your inner world, and equipped with the relationship skills to actually create what you want. Open to singles and those in relationship. Application required.
A 4-month facilitation and business training for women ready to run transformational women’s groups. Whether it’s a side project or a full program, you’ll learn to hold a group experience that genuinely changes people, using somatic work, shadow work, and the tools that make a group captivating rather than surface level.
I got into this work because I was the woman I now work with. Anxiously attached, self-abandoning, convinced that if I could just understand myself well enough I’d finally stop repeating the patterns.
Nothing changed until I had two things: a real space to practise relating differently, and nervous system work that actually reached the part of me where the pattern lived.
I’m a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) based in Bali, working with clients online around the world.
Read my story →Your patterns don’t live in a narrative. They live in your body’s responses, automatic, instinctive, faster than thought. Understanding the pattern is not the same as changing it. Somatic Experiencing works at the level where patterns are actually stored: not the story, but the felt sense beneath it.
“I truly feel like our work was a huge part of me calling in the healthiest relationship of my life. I am so happy. My standards were higher, and I knew what to look for. I now know how to self soothe and regulate myself so much faster. I’ve come into this relationship as a whole, safe, secure being rather than an anxious person attracting an avoidant.
The feeling is almost indescribable… like, ‘Oh, this is what it’s like to be in a secure relationship?’ It was foreign to me before.”
“Thank you for helping me become more secure, for helping me attract an amazing person, for helping me become someone of high value, who loves and respects herself. You are a huge reason for helping me find an amazing partner, and I’m forever grateful.”
— Rand A., 1:1 client“For the longest time I thought I had to do it all myself. But having Jenelle’s support is what actually allowed me to change. I used to attract narcissistic, unavailable men. Now I’m in the most loving relationship of my life. I had spent years being aware of my patterns but still repeating them. This gave me the tools to actually change. Everything in my life changed: my body, my relationships, my work, and most of all, my sense of self.”
— Nikki B., 1:1 client“I feel alive again in my relationships, excited to grow in them, and I’ve come out with a much better understanding of who the people in my life are and how much they mean to me. I was at a point where I wanted to give up, and now I’m so excited to move forward and grow in those relationships. If you’re on the fence, should I do this or not, I would say do it. Even in the beginning, I wasn’t sure, but it 100% was the right path.”
— Klarrisa, 1:1 client“I just felt really stuck… but the more that I really kind of sat with that, the more I realized… this is not a good relationship for me, and I really want to be out. What shifted everything for me was learning how to work with your nervous system… made such a huge impact, where I found myself able to slow down and realize, this is manageable. I can handle this. And when I finally chose myself, the first thing that I noticed was just the sense of a weight lifted… I can breathe again… I feel much more alive… much more happy and secure.”
— D.F., Secure Program“My relationship to myself has reached a state of acceptance, confidence and authenticity that I haven’t experienced before. This work has empowered me to untangle from an ex partner who I struggled to let go of for a long time.”
— Sunny, Secure Program“After the three months, I’ve been able to set boundaries and connect much more deeply with myself. As I’ve stepped into more authenticity and integrity, I’ve also been able to create better relationships with my partner, friends, and family. The growth I’ve seen in myself is something I’m truly proud of.”
— Kendall, Group Work“We’ve been enemies… just so much resentment and so much pain. But even in that one session, just doing that has opened us up to each other in a way that’s just never happened before. It’s like people keep saying, we have to communicate better… but how? And then we do this exercise that it feels like we were starving for… and suddenly, now, we are able to hear each other. Now we’re connected… it feels so different… feels a bit like the old days. Jenelle, you are amazing… I wish I’d found you sooner. You would have saved me months of heartache.”
— H.N., Couples Work“Jenelle guided me through practices that help me regulate my nervous system so I can be with all of my feelings. This has given me the courage to step out of unhealthy and codependent relationship dynamics. I feel like I’m creating my life rather than living based on others’ expectations of me.”
— Katherine, 1:1 client
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